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Why wait? - Romantic Sex when you are datingBy April Braswell Why wait to share physical intimacy when you're dating, courting, and looking to create a great romantic life partner relationship? Multiple reasons really. I am all for go have some fun, explore, enjoy your inner vixen and let that energy just EMANATE from you. However, ladies, when you are interested in a relationship, then, YES, YOU MUST WAIT. Men do understand that sharing physical intimacy with us has a price. The question on their dear minds is, "What is her price?" I don't mean that crassly. I mean, do you just want a casual connection but you are secretly HOPING this will turn into something more? Well, have sharing intimacy too early can CAN be a deal killer.
Some relationships have made it even WITH a quick consummation. However, if you wait, you do both of yourselves a favor. You allow the man to move from PHYSICAL ATTRACTION (bless their hearts, ladies, are YOU SUPER glad they are ATTRACTED to you? Yup! Me, too!) into exploring other levels of attraction - mental, partnership, friendship, spiritual. To have just jump quickly would be akin to Fast Food when what we all really crave is 4Stars at Tour D'Argent in Paris! The other reason is more complicated and scientific and you will also be embarrassed. Oxytocin. Ladies. We secrete the wonderful hormone oxytocin as soon as we are even embracing or kissing a man, let alone even more. Uterine walls and breasts. Isn't God's design beautiful and marvelous? We secrete oxytocin when our babies are breast feeding. It is The Bonding Hormone. Women emotionally bond during physical intimacy. Men do NOT. This is why it is embarrassing. Even the best of us, the most well-educated, the smartest, the most beautiful, yup, whatever. We BOND during intimacy and then will obsess in some manner of the man. Man, he didn't even have to be the best out there. We start to see him with rose-tinted glasses. We all too rapidly glaze over his fault and start to rationalize staying together with him longer when maybe we should have thrown that little fish BACK into the big pond right away. But we didn't.... why? Oxytocin! If you're daydreaming about a future with him and it's been under a month or two of dating and relationship building, and you've got physical .... it's OXYTOCIN. Yup. Embarrassing. Not quite Fatal Attraction bad, but, sigh, bad. So, cross your legs and WAIT!
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April Braswell
April is a brilliant giver. She shares her time, information and exhubrance. Her articles are cheeky and great fun to read, even if you are not a boomer. If you are a baby boomer, she's just the resource you need to get back on your feet when it comes to romance. Whether you have lost a spouse to death or divorce, she can help you heal that wound.
Kate McKeon
April Braswell, Relationship Coach Par Excellence! I had been stuck in a relationship that was going nowhere with a man who did not love me and who did not make me happy.... April gave me the confidence to HOPE that there was someone out there who would love me and accept me for who I was. She held my hand thoughout the whole the experience, or I would never gone online....I was too skittish about the whole deal. In fact, I told her, "April, I have already met all the single men in the Metro area in my age agroup. There's no one out there for me that I am interested in! But April's warmth, encouragement, and compassion challenged me to venture online. I did and enjoyed a number of good results. I had some good dates. This was good. But still...I had not met THE one. Then she encouraged me to try another service...and within several weeks...I was dating new men. It was GREAT. What a difference. THANK YOU......I love you!!! Sonya L.
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Kevin Hogan, PhD, Reading Body Language Expert, author of best-sellers, The Psychology of Persuasion and most recently, The Secret Language of Business: How to Read Anyone in 3 Seconds or Less. Dave Lakhani, author of Persuasion: The Art of Getting What You Want. April Braswell, Kevin Hogan, and Dave Lakhani at the Venetian. (Las Vegas)
April Braswell and TV's Biggest Loser Season Two Winner, Matt Hoover in Boise
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April Braswell met Darryl Hanah at the Mandalay Bay, Las Vegas, NV
April Braswell met Theresa Flynt in Las Vegas at the Venetian, Larry Flynt's daughter, and marvelous Executive Business Woman in her own right, VP of Operations, of Flynt Management Group.
April is definitely the expert to go to for any one that wants to understand the nuances of dating and relationships. She is a great coach and genuinely cares about those she works with and will gently challenge you to do the things necessary for finding the happiness and love we all deserve in life. If you really want to get yourself out there and begin dating, contact April NOW!
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Executive Director
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I just met April at a conference in Philly. What a vivacious, self-assured, beautiful and incredible woman!! It’s obvious how her energy and passion are part of everything in her life and that she can coach you in tapping into your own life force to show the world the beautiful person you are and attract the type of man you want.
Debra Shetzler
April is very detail oriented and she listens and really tries to understand all aspects of a situation before dispensing her SOLID advice. Since most (all?) situations are more complicated than they first appear, this is a great skill to have!
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Ben Mack and April Braswell together at Kevin Hogan's Influence Boot Camp 2008 in the LUXOR, Las Vegas, NV. "You're BRILLIANT! It's true," Ben Mack said about April Braswell. Dr. Ben Mack is author of Think Two Products Ahead.
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Gail Hurt, Austin, TX
President of Living Authentically
www.LivingAuthentic
April is a romance coach. Her Online Strategies are spot-on in helping single people meet other and ultimately get married. She's a great speaker: good ideas, funny, and tiny bit risque. Super combination.
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