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How to Market Yourself Onlineby April Braswell April Braswell, leading expert on Online Dating and Online Personals talks about "How to Market Yourself Online at Online Dating Sites.
Surely you DO realize that you ARE Marketing Yourself Online? It's the 21st century. Every time you join a Social Networking website like Facebook and MySpace in addition to the Online Dating websites like Yahoo! Personals and Match.com, you are positioning yourself online. Every time you post your profiles at an Online Personals or Online Dating site, you are marketing yourself online. Yup. You are. So, indeed, be sure to leverage every tool you can at your disposal.
Yes, fundamentally I am a business woman. So, I listen to all of these Internet Marketing gurus who are making skads of money (certainly a captivating topic), some of whom are genuinely helping people. I learn a lot from them, and in many cases, what they espouse merely affirms what I already knew as a Sales and Marketing Director taking much of the same skills and applying those in our romantic relationships. Indeed, business is all about relationships as well. They are not separate spheres of our lives. They comprise our WHOLE lives. I am the same person expressing different aspects of myself.
So, step number 1, get online.
And remember the GOAL of online personals is about the volume of dates you have here. Some of the online dating sites (I'm thinking of one in particularly and I'll see how I feel over time about posting lambasting comments about them here at my website. But for now, I'll be discrete and say nothing of their name.) prey on Singles' fears. Indeed, we are afraid of rejection. So, we would really like to go on ONE date and have that be our SOUL MATE and marry them. Maybe within 6 months - 2 years. Ideal, yes? But really in the majority of cases, that is not reality? Wouldn't you rather date smart and have the Online Dating odds work in your favor?
There is even the whole Courtship movement within some groups of Christians, which I rather respect because its whole approach keeps the end goal of MARRIAGE is what we are AFTER in mind. However, one of the weaknesses of Courtship is that it is so GOAL focused - MARRIAGE - bless its heart, that it neglects and the proponents don't perceive the marriage-strengthening communication skill-set building outcome of actually going through The Dating Process.
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April Braswell, Relationship Coach Par Excellence! I had been stuck in a relationship that was going nowhere with a man who did not love me and who did not make me happy.... April gave me the confidence to HOPE that there was someone out there who would love me and accept me for who I was. She held my hand thoughout the whole the experience, or I would never gone online....I was too skittish about the whole deal. In fact, I told her, "April, I have already met all the single men in the Metro area in my age agroup. There's no one out there for me that I am interested in! But April's warmth, encouragement, and compassion challenged me to venture online. I did and enjoyed a number of good results. I had some good dates. This was good. But still...I had not met THE one. Then she encouraged me to try another service...and within several weeks...I met Marc. We're in love. April coached me me even through the rough spots of the the developing relationship...I don't know how I would have done it without her! She is a shoulder to cry on when you need that, and a kick in the butt when you need that, too. Marc and I are moving in together and plan to marry. April, from the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU......I love you!!! Sonya Lenzo, www.sonyamlenzo.com
TESTIMONIALS FOR APRIL BRASWELL:
Kevin Hogan, PhD, Reading Body Language Expert , Motivational Speaker, Influence, Persuasion, Sales Training, and author of best sellers, The Psychology of Persuasion and most recently, The Secret Language of Business: How to Read Anyone in 3 Seconds or Less.
Dave Lakhani, author of Persuasion:The Art of Getting What You Want. www.boldapproach.com
Read April's Easy Dating Tips Blog
April is definitely the expert to go to for any one that wants to understand the nuances of dating and relationships. She is a great coach and genuinely cares about those she works with and will gently challenge you to do the things necessary for finding the happiness and love we all deserve in life. If you really want to get yourself out there and begin dating, contact April NOW!
Judy Monroe
www.ConsistentMarketinginc.com
The Dating Doctor that rocks! Whether you are looking to connect with another human being on a deeper level or just need help in rejuvenating your current relationship, April is the spark that will ignite your passion, your self-confidence and a greater sense of sexual success. April's advice is invaluable especially when she employs her tried and tested dating on the job resulting in many individuals and couples experiencing long term happiness. Overall, April is a must see , who has given me excellent solid advice and a greater clarity in knowing how to enjoy my personal life more!
David Power
Clinical Hypnotherapist, London,UK
www.david-power.com
April is engaging, savvy, smart and interesting. She provides a realistic and non-threatening approach to on-line dating. She makes a scary process fun and easy. She's a must hire if you want to find a partner!
Shannon Cassidy
Executive Director
www.bridgebetween.org
April is genuine, personal and full of energy. April is passionate about helping others which is why I choose to work with her.
Sabrina Peterson
www.SabrinaPeterson.com
I just met April at a conference in Philly. What a vivacious, self-assured, beautiful and incredible woman!! It’s obvious how her energy and passion are part of everything in her life and that she can coach you in tapping into your own life force to show the world the beautiful person you are and attract the type of man you want.
Debra Shetzler
She is my ego booster!
Jacqueline Rivera
Energetic, inspiring and lovely.
Willa Potgieter-Huang
www.hope.za.org
What a motivator. April is definitely the obvious expert for all your questions about personal relationships! A superb dating coach, dynamic speaker that keeps an audience captivated with her utter charm, intelligence and wit.
Michelle Matteson
www.wakingtrance.com
April is a dynamic, spellbinding, compassionate, woman on the move! She is intellectually and emotionally curious and she inspires others to be their best selves!
Sonya Lenzo
www.SonyaMLenzo.com
April is an amazing person...she has an incredible ability to connect with people and to make everyone she comes in contact with feel special.
Jennifer Skinner
Wardrobe Planning Expert and Image and Style Consultant
www.JenniferSkinnerOnline.
April is an expert in online dating. This came through in her speaking presentation. She had great advice that really work and that will make a difference in your online dating. If you want to improve your dating life or are looking to start dating again, I highly recommend April's services.
Steve Chambers
www.SteveChambers.com
April is very detail oriented and she listens and really tries to understand all aspects of a situation before dispensing her SOLID advice. Since most (all?) situations are more complicated than they first appear, this is a great skill to have!
Rob Northrup
www.CorporateVeilPro.com
Ben Mack and April Braswell together at Kevin Hogan's Influence Boot Camp 2008 in the LUXOR, Las Vegas, NV. "You're BRILLIANT! It's true," Ben Mack said about April Braswell. Dr. Ben Mack is author of Think Two Products Ahead.
April is one of the most energetic and outgoing people I know, and has a great knack for social networking. You just can't go wrong working with her!
Roland Michelli
www.PdNFull.com
Charm coupled with a sharp intellect and authentic confidence. April is a most fascinating person to know and to learn from.
Gail Hurt, Austin, TX
President of Living Authentically
www.LivingAuthentic
April is a romance coach. Her Online Strategies are spot-on in helping single people meet other and ultimately get married. She's a great speaker: good ideas, funny, and tiny bit risque. Super combination.
Bob Isaacson
President Full Circle Communications
www.FullCircleSolutions.net
April, Great information. I love your presence and sense of humor. I have not laughed so much in years. You are a great speaker, confident, at ease. Thank you.
Michael Roth
www.DrMichaelRoth.com
April is wonderful, motivated and goal oriented woman.
Paul Yolland
April has a passion for all that she does and all she believes in. She has excellent networking skills and works dilligently towards her goals and towards helping others to work toward theirs!
Aleta Batz
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