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Find a Date or a Mate?


By guest author,Tim Birch


Are you a single man or woman who desires your perfect date/mate/soul mate? 


Well, have you looked in a mirror lately?  Now ask yourself this important question, what are you doing to be the kind of person your desired mate will find desirable?


Now, let's face some facts from the biology department.  Nature put a pattern in the human brain on what to sort for.  Good genes.  You are a product of the 'selfish gene'.  The puzzle pieces fit together and here you are!


Tricks for the 'monkey' brain.  Clean up.  Bad smells are a real turn off.  Kevin Hogan, world famous expert on communication had a few tips.  Scent free as best you can.  Use antiperspirant (scentless).  Do your nails.  Brush your teeth, get a tongue scrapper.  Quit smoking and cut down on the recreational chemicals.


Improve your hip to waist ratio. The best is .7.  Maybe yoga and weight training. Get limber and toned.  Increases your endurance as well. (If your gonna have fun best make it last!)


Self Mastery is the most attractive thing you can practice.  Why pay the money for surgery when you can do it for free?  Eat less, work out more.  Focus beyond the goal of getting a date.  Your focus is on the end goal of being happy with yourself and other people will be happy around you.  Learn to run your brain.




Covert Hypnosis: Advanced Course in Subtle Unconscious Communication CD Set



Can Anyone Truly Master Subconscious Influence?

Covert Hypnosis: An Advanced Course in Unconscious Influence (8 Audio CDs + Manual on CD) 

Covert Hypnosis is the utilization of techniques and strategies to change the perception and behavior of others in a completely subtle and unconscious way.

The optimal applications for covert hypnosis are in the fields of selling, advertising, marketing, attraction and therapy.

With your permission, I'd like to give you just a few of the observations of people who have implemented this Covert Hypnosis program into their daily business and personal lives. Then I'll show you everything it includes.

I coined the phrase Covert Hypnosis in 1998. I developed the first manual for Covert Hypnosis in 1999 and then I created what I believe might be one of the influence masterpieces of all time with this 8 CD set.

"I recently purchased Covert Hypnosis and absolutely love it. I sell security systems to small business owners. I was calling on a repair shop owner and after giving my presentation I asked for the sale. He said his budget was really tight now but call in 6 months. That's when I remembered what you taught and with only ONE sentence, I had the sale! It blew me away. Thank you, thank you!" Andy Howland, Grand Rapids, MI

"Kevin I just wanted to thank you for taking the time and answering my question. I also wanted to thank you for putting out some kick a*! products. As a person who makes a living from persuading people to buy my products, the information that is in the Covert Hypnosis CD set is amazing, and the Body Language set can give you a leg up in sales and negotiating." Scott S. Bell, Sacramento, CA

"I bought your Covert Hypnosis and Science of Influence and I thought I owed it to you to tell you that your courses are the reason that I made $32,000 last week. I used to lose a great deal of customers 'on the fence'. I thought it was just part of the deal, you get some, you lose most. I still make a great living getting 'some'. I believe your courses enabled me to get most of the ones that are 'on the fence' while losing only some of them. Thanks!" Mark Deaton, AGSI, Twin Falls, ID

"I just wanted to thank you for your outstanding programs. We develop sales forces all over the world and the Science of Influence and Covert Hypnosis Series are invaluable resources to increase the chances of getting decision-makers to say yes! If social influence and persuasion are a CODE; you are the CODE breaker. I look forward to your future research!" Randy Zales, President, The Randy Zales Company

"The CD's I bought from you are excellent. I listen to them going to practice, great 'stuff, backed by research. I use covert techniques on the practice field regularly. I often begin with a 'suggestion' before we start and at the end of the session say a linking suggestion for the future workout or goal. I used to sell before I taught, coached and counseled. I found out early all communication involves selling something, an idea, a belief, a hope or a plan. Your help through your presentations is a generative 'thing' and I love it!" Performance Coach Joe Donahue, Boston, MA

"I wanted to take this opportunity to thank you for your part in changing the direction and fortunes of my career. Having been a fairly successful salesman for only 2 years, I was invited by the company to come off the road and take on a development/training role for the very new sales team. I accepted the offer knowing I needed to do some quick study in the world of sales. All the other books recommended to me contained the standard closes known to every man and his dog. That's when I...came across you. I found your Science of Influence Series, Body Language Study Course and Covert Hypnosis to be truly spectacular. And to prove it, I was recently awarded the annual Employee of the Year award with over 50% of the votes! I work for one of the UK's fastest growing companies, now recognized as the most prolific selling organization in the telecom industry. Kevin, I owe an enormous amount of gratitude to you for the quality and consistency of the material you produce. I truly hope to thank you in person one day but for now...Thank you!" Gary May, Hampshire, UK

"I recently bought your covert hypnosis course and love it. I have been listening to the CDs over and over and over again and doing the exercises in the manual. It's really starting to sink in and I'm extremely happy about what I have learned about myself and others. I have experienced many "WOW" moments. The 16 core desires/drives is just blowing my mind. I am pleased with the program and the peace of mind it has brought into my life. Thanks." Ken Kimball, Monroe, New Hampshire

"Kevin, Just wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed your 8-CD Series on Covert Hypnosis. I have gone through the series 4 times. Every time I review the CDs I learn something new and another question is answered. Thank you - I really have enjoyed them!" Greg Sysak, Long Beach, CA

"This is THE advanced course in subtle influence! Remember when you read Covert Hypnosis: An Operator's Manual, and you got that WOW! feeling inside?! Well, that was just the beginning. In Covert Hypnosis: An Advanced Course in Unconscious Influence, you are going to learn how to subtly move inside the mind of anyone you communicate with. In trance or out, this is the most powerful material on Covert Hypnosis on the planet. Period."
Kevin Hogan, Psy.D.

In CD 1: No wasted "intro space" as with so many programs. You jump right in and find out the secrets of how to weave the exact messages you want others to act upon into stories that captivate listeners. For the master communicator, listeners will laugh one minute and be reaching for a handkerchief the next. Soon they will be nodding their heads! Meanwhile, dozens of covert messages are secretly being transmitted to the unconscious minds of the listeners via the powerful medium of covert hypnosis.

CDs 2 & 3: These CDs show you how to motivate and compel other people to change their behavior as quickly as is humanly possible. Benefit: You can utilize these covert tools with your own unconscious mind because they link into the core drives and desires that you have! Utilizing the 6 core human instinctual drives and the 10 core human desires, you can literally go inside and push the buttons that need to be pushed at any moment to gain compliance with others. This breakthrough mind technology has never been taught anywhere by anyone other than Kevin Hogan, and now you can be the first to utilize this information in business or to enhance your personal relationships.

CD 4: Reveals ALL 22 elements of Covert Hypnosis revealed for this first time anywhere! Never before released by anyone, anywhere. The complete Covert Hypnosis Model for change is here. Business? Sales? Consulting? Coaching? Therapy? Learn specifically how to generate change in their thinking with the Covert Hypnosis Model. Parts of this model were hinted about in previous programs, but here the complete model is revealed for the first time. Now you can have all 22 components! You don't need to have any formal advanced training in hypnosis to understand this groundbreaking program.

CD 5: Gives you all the tools necessary to take a person's deepest drives (sex, eating, acquisition, connection, etc.) and fuse them into building compelling outcomes (the girl of your dreams, lose weight, acquire wealth, meet new people easily). Ignore either aspect, and failure is assured. Successfully meld the two in the unconscious mind and amazing things can happen. Goal setting is essentially a waste of time if someone doesn't literally wire those goals into the deepest primeval urges and desires of the psyche. Napoleon Hill knew that without intense emotional drive, goals would be impotent. Napoleon Hill was the success master of the first half of the 20th century and now we can take goals, desires and drives into the 21st century.

CD 6: Pattern Recognition: Getting someone to think about something is one thing. Getting someone to feel driven to DO something and then watch them do it like magic is something else entirely. Learn so much in just this one CD!!!

  • How to get people to act on your instructions now.

  • How to get them to do what you want them to, instead of following old programming

  • Debug lousy patterns in anyone's brain so you are free to act now without restriction.

  • Get people to recognize you as safe, comfortable to be with, and instantly likable.


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