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Date 3 Men at a Time Until You Get Engaged

Female Dating Advice for Single Women: Keeping Dating 3 Guys Until You're Engaged

Dating Advice to Women: Do Keep Dating 3 Men Until You Become Committed

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3 Sweet Choices for Single Women After 40

By April Braswell Los Angeles based Dating Coach for Women After 40 and Online Dating Coach advises her single female clients to Date 3 Men Until You Are Engaged and leverage Internet Personals and Online Dating websites.

When single ladies approach me for my Online Dating Expert and Internet Personals Ads Expert advise at my Dating and Flirting Workshops, like how JACL invited and asked me to present 2 workshops covering Online Dating Success, at their annual singles conference when it was in Las Vegas, one of the first things I recommend to them is, "Sister, you need to date 3 men at a time until you get engaged." Ladies, don't stop dating other men and taking yourself "off market" from the Singles Scene prematurely.

Wondering Who Pays On Dates? Should Guys Expect to Pay for the Date?

Should women after 40 and over 50 being expecting the man over 40 to pay for their date?

Dating Expert For Women Coaches: Keep On Dating 3 Single Men Until You're Engaged 

Because of our oxytocin driver, women need to date more than one man while we are sorting out whom we will marry. As women, we actually NEED to date 3 men at a time until you get engaged to work well with our physiology. By dating 3 guys, your hormones never over-attach to one man.

1 and oxytocin prompts us to obession

2 and it's simply an either/or situation

3 and it's JUST RIGHT. You can keep some semblance of perspective. Some. We're still girls and have emotional drives, ok? Once the hormones are running with us, even the most intelligent don't keep a 100% clear and rational perspective.


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Dating Coaching for Women After 40: How to Respond When Your Guy Asks to Get Exclusive With You

When your A list man asks you to be exclusive, and trust me ladies, he will be ah-askin! Don't say YES to exclusivity right away. Were you to do so, he might get cocky, feel you're a touch desperate and clingy, or he might feel smothered by your enthusiastic yes. So.. when he asks, wait. Tell him, "Mike, I'm flattered that you want to be exclusive with me and I feel good that you're attracted to me enough that you want to pursue a relationship with me. But I need to think about it a little and see how I really feel. What do you think? Can I get back to on that?"

While you are contemplating his request, tell Mr B and Mr C that they are just great guys. You've really been enjoying dating them. But you just feel you need to see where this other relationship is going. Bless their hearts, naturally, they'll be crushed. But, and I love this about me, they will appreciate your straightforwardness and probably kick themselves a little, and well they should, for not having been sufficiently aggressive themselves in their pursuit of your to be the on to GET you. Nice, n'est pas? Yes! You will also cement yourself in their minds as the OH-SO-VERY-Attractive-One-Who-Got-Away. You WANT to be in that spot in their brains, ladies. It enhances your romantic stature.

Dating Expert Warns Single Women Not to Take Themselves Off the Singles Market Prematurely

By so doing, you will have the option of allowing them back into your dating rotation should things NOT work out with Mr A List.

When you DO accept to be exclusive with Mr A List, say, "Michael, I've been considering your request to be exclusive with me, I feel I can try to see how it works out." This communicates that he is essentially on a probationary period with you. So, yes, rather than now thinking erroneusly, Oh, I HAVE her and can slack off (thank you JOhn Gray for explaining this so well about men!), he works even harder to please you to WIN you to him.

Ok, so this is one where I get some grief. Surprise. The men who usually don't like that I do this, it's because they want to be sharing intimacy with you without actually contemplating and agreeing to the serious possibility of marriage. Some will agree to exclusivity because they want to take me off the market, but at their convenience. So, even if you agree to intimacy exclusivity, of course, honor that, and continue to date other men, to meet them. One of them may prove to be a better fit with you, who will lead you and cherish you more than the man who is, bless his heart, only desiring you.

So, to meet a number of men, I am a strong proponent of Online Personals.

Now, don't go join Match, and somewhere else all on the same day. You'll get a GLUT and be overwhelmed. Rather, stagger things. Start at one dating site. Do that for about 6 wks. You will have met your initial WAVE and onslaught of men and had a marvelous time with the grad student from the local university from another country but where you JUST can't see having a relationship, maybe have 1 or 2 whom interest you potentially a relationship.... And NOW is the time then to post a profile up at Match as well!

DO MIX IT! More on that later. Be sure to come back here often, as I do add content frequently!



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with Kevin Hogan and Beth Bednar

Did you know that people form their first impression of you in the first four seconds?

Incredible, isn't it?

People form their first impression of you in the first four seconds! Maximize your natural attributes to create an instant bond with anyone you meet.

Irresistible attraction means bringing your charismatic you to all of your relationships. Whether you are moving toward intimacy or simply want to be at your best, this video takes you through the laws of attraction and charisma.

You will learn how to:

  • Communicate with others at the Unconscious Level. 
  • Use easy to learn gestures and body positions to make or break a first impression.
  • See what your (or their) eyes are really saying.
  • What to say when you don't know what to say!
  • Create chemistry with anyone at will.
  • Words and phrases that virtually guarantee they will say yes!

Kevin Hogan is an author and certified instructor of hypnotherapy and a body language media expert. Beth Bednar is a well known public speaker and real estate investor. She was an ABC-TV affiliate anchorperson and now does commercials and voice-overs.

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Approximately 1 hr., 45 min.

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April Braswell, Relationship Coach Par Excellence! I had been stuck in a relationship that was going nowhere with a man who did not love me and who did not make me happy.... April gave me the confidence to HOPE that there was someone out there who would love me and accept me for who I was. She held my hand thoughout the whole the experience, or I would never gone online....I was too skittish about the whole deal. In fact, I told her, "April, I have already met all the single men in the Metro area in my age agroup. There's no one out there for me that I am interested in!  But April's warmth, encouragement, and compassion challenged me to venture online. I did and enjoyed a number of good results. I had some good dates. This was good. But still...I had not met THE one. Then she encouraged me to try another service...and within several weeks...I was dating new men.  It was GREAT.   What a difference.  THANK YOU......I love you!!! Sonya L. 














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